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Published on October 21, 2005 By InBloom In Blogging
I write private blogs from time to time...and tonight was one of those times. No, it was not something serious or sad or depressing...It was just an assortment of unorganized, here-there-and-everywhere thoughts I didn't think people would care to see....it was a nice release...something I could go back and reflect on intimately whenever I want or need to.

It got me wondering...How many of us around here actually do it? When do you decide to make your thoughts private? And how many of us are just Forum exclusive? In need of the feedback? Or in need of the interaction? I enjoy the forums just as much as anyone else...and I certainly do enjoy the comments and communication with other bloggers on here; it has been a great experience overall.
But sometimes I just need that privacy...that privacy that allows me to be completely uninhibited in what I am thinking and feeling and expressing...that privacy that allows me to be 110% me....don't know if that makes any sense.

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on Oct 21, 2005
private blogging..hmm. yeah , yup, it does make sense. I think a lot of people do it.
on Oct 21, 2005
But sometimes I just need that privacy...that privacy that allows me to be 110% me....


That's what I have a diary for. Flagged "private" or not, I wouldn't transmit anything I didn't want anyone to see. You never know what could go wrong.


"Custom audience" is the closest I've gotten to "private blogging." For a while I had a "trusted bloggers" group for whom I would write articles I didn't care to share with the world in general. Then most of my "trusted bloggers" either left or got exiled. One got into a snit with me. By the time it was just about down to only kingbee and me, I pulled the plug. At that point I may as well just be emailing.

The only other use I've had for "private" articles is when I wanted something to have a specific date but wasn't finished with it. I've put up a place holder and made it public later. I've also done that with an occasional article I felt like "sneaking in." I've left them private till they've scrolled off the "most recent" list then made them public.
on Oct 21, 2005
I have a large number of blogs that are for my eyes only. well the eyes of colleen too.
on Oct 21, 2005
I have several, but not a lot.  More likely I use either Custom Audiences, or just not posted to the Forums.
on Oct 21, 2005
I've done a few, but it's mostly cases of ranting/venting or just plain contrariness.

Usually, those that I mark private, I don't end up submitting and just let them flow off my back.
on Oct 21, 2005
~~private blogging..hmm. yeah , yup, it does make sense. I think a lot of people do it.~~

Not sure if you know what I mean. The audience I am mostly "speaking" to consists of regular Forum users...and it has me wondering which of us use the "private" option...

~~That's what I have a diary for.~~

Yep, I kept a journal myself for many, many years...but I love the options that this site gives me...I can choose at the drop of a hat whether I want my writing private, semi-private, or publicized for the blogging world to see...
on Oct 21, 2005
~~I have a large number of blogs that are for my eyes only. well the eyes of colleen too.~~

Ah, well that is the most important type of audience, isn't it.

~~I have several, but not a lot. More likely I use either Custom Audiences, or just not posted to the Forums.~~

I have yet to use the custom audience. The "regular" blog thing I have done, though.

~I've done a few, but it's mostly cases of ranting/venting or just plain contrariness. ~

Same here...it's not regularly that I do it, but I am thinking I should take advantage of it more often.
on Oct 21, 2005
~~I keep my private thoughts on word documents, what I write here is for public consumption and scrutiny.~~

I actually do have some unpublished blogs (unfinished ones, too) that I have in one of my desktop folders...they might just stay there permanently.
on Oct 21, 2005
I keep a diary. I don't use the private blogging at all. I've only ever not put anything on the forum once I think. But most of my writing I do for others to read and get feed back on. It helps my thought process especially when there's something really bothering me.

I actually do have some unpublished blogs (unfinished ones, too) that I have in one of my desktop folders...they might just stay there permanently.


Oh I have quite a few of these! I haven't gotten the chance to put them on the computer yet. I keep a journal of ideas and thoughts that sometimes lead to blogging topics!
on Oct 21, 2005
I have never used it. If I want it to be private it will never hit the web, and likely will never hit any digital format. Easier to keep track of a physical copy.
on Oct 21, 2005
I don't private blog, but there's a valuable possibility in private blogging that a lot of people don't consider.

If the blog service is dependable, you can store your writing on their server rather than your own hard drive, until you need it later. Their server is usually more secure than your own system.

Just one of many possibilities.
on Oct 21, 2005

I have yet to use the custom audience. The "regular" blog thing I have done, though.

It is a hassle as you have to create the group and maintain it, but it has its purpose.

on Oct 21, 2005

If the blog service is dependable, you can store your writing on their server rather than your own hard drive, until you need it later. Their server is usually more secure than your own system.

Actually doing both is a good idea.  People use to laugh at me when I would save my programs (when I was one of those!) to a floppy to take home, the network, and my hard drive!

But I did not lose any.

on Oct 21, 2005
Sometimes I write an article, post it, and then will make it private for personal reasons....

that doesn't happen too often though.
on Oct 21, 2005
FS~~I keep a journal of ideas and thoughts that sometimes lead to blogging topics!~~

Now, that's a neat idea...

BD~~If I want it to be private it will never hit the web, and likely will never hit any digital format. Easier to keep track of a physical copy.~~

That's passed my mind, too...but besides fellow JUsers, my b/f and my sister, no other people know that I even blog on here, so it's not too much of a worry for me, at least not yet.
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